Thursday, February 26, 2015

Feb 16

Hey peeps! 

Hope you all had a great week! I'll be living up the next few months of my mission in Stavanger, and the next 6 weeks with my good buddy Elder Duncan. I don't have any time at all, but miracles are happening, the work is hastening, angels are in our cities and in our towns and in our communities PREPARING people to hear the Gospel! I hope we will all be willing and ready to be instruments in the Lord's hands to help harvest His prepared children.

I promise a good email next week!

Monday, February 9, 2015

The Final Stretch

Feb 9, 2015

Start the 6 month countdown!
It's kind of like the final stretch! I'm already banking on it being the greatest 6 months of my life. Still so much to give, so much to learn, and so much to accomplish! We had a crazy week this week, despite me coming down with a bit of a fever for the last half of the week. I'm feeling better now, and I'm just lucky that that is about as sick as I have gotten over the past year and half. It's been a huge blessing. 

We've had a huge focus on goals. Setting goals, making plans, and then doing everything necessary to reach them. Not only does it make everything in your work more effective, but it provides so much motivation!
We had the assistants on splits with us on Friday, and we had some pretty lofty goals for that day. We ended up exceeding them! We taught 5 lessons, 6 new investigators, and got a baptismal date with a man that we met that same day! His name is Rune, and he came to church and is super positive. He's a little rough around the edges and has some kind of speech impediment, so it's hard to know exactly what he is thinking or feeling, but he's got great potential. We had the attitude that it wasn't acceptable to NOT reach our goals that day, and look what happened. Many might miracles:) Most of our new investigators came from a family that we found from the Congo. They have 4 kids ages 9-19 and they are super humble. They don't speak english, and only the kids understand norwegian, so we're praying that God provides us with someone who can speak Swahili so that we can help them have a better understanding of the gospel! So that was awesome as well. 

Earlier in the week Elder Duncan and I were helping an African part member couple set up a new bunk bed, (the husband is inactive and the wife isn't a member) when a fight broke out between them! The couple came running into the room and the wife picked up a bed board and held it up to the guys face while they continued to yell at each other.
Elder Duncan and I had never been in a situation like that but we did our best to calm down the situation and resolve the conflict haha it took about an hour but it all worked out in the end. Contention is of the devil! Arguing doesn't solve anything! That's what I learned from that. haha.

Missionary work has never been so intense as it is right now, and it makes me way excited. I love the work! 



The Church is true.

Elder Nilsson

Sunday, February 8, 2015

February 2

Well, this week was highlighted by the straight up awesomeness of the members here in Stavanger. We taught a few lessons at a couple of member's houses this week, as well as had a couple of awesome member visits. I love these people, and I love getting to know them! It seems like every time Elder Duncan walk out of an appointment with a member we just look at each other right after and say "They are the greatest people ever." 'Cause they all are! So I'm super grateful for them.

We're still getting used to our new and improved contacting approach, and it was a struggle to find this last week, but that can change at any moment. We'll just keep working, praying, and showing faith, and the rest is in God's hands. 

One thing that has been brought back to my mind recently is the power in USING the Book of Mormon! Not just talking about it or explaining it, but letting it speak for itself!

Sometimes we think we can paraphrase a scripture or passage better in order to better fit the needs of people, but the words in the scriptures were chosen and put that way for a reason, and they are way powerful. We've seen a complete 180 turn with one of the people we are teaching ever since we just started reading the Book of Mormon with him. The scriptures are the words of Christ! What could be more powerful!?
 
This week I'll be flying to Oslo again for Leadership council, and then we will have the Assistants here on splits on Thursday, so it should be a fun week!

By the way, I don't think I ever mentioned that we live in an apartment together with 2 other elders, 1 of them being a fellow Beetdigger! That's right, me and Elder Gustafson are roommates haha so that's pretty fun:)

Hope everyone has a great week! Love you all! 

Elder Nilsson

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

January 26

Ha det bra Januar! Velkommen Februar!

Had a pretty decent week this week. Although the work can be hard sometimes, it's always nice to have a fun companion that you are pretty good friends with to keep the mood light. Elder Duncan is hilarious and I love serving with him!
We're hoping that we somehow get one more transfer together, even though it doesn't really ever happen that people serve with the same companion for 3 transfers in a row. But we'll see!

On Tuesday I took an early morning train to Kristiansand, which is way in the south. I went on splits with Elder Drage who was also in my MTC group. It was fun and we had some good lessons as well as meeting some great people at a pentecostal church meeting that we went to. Despite what I would have expected, there was just a ton of snow and ice there! It made me miss Stavanger. But it was still a good splits! 
 
We flew back home the next morning and our district had a "Training workshop meeting" put on by the Assistants. I'm pretty used to flying. We do it a lot. I've probably taken maybe over 30 or 40 flights since I've been in Norway. One of the Assistants has almost hit 100 flights. The planes are usually pretty standard size, but every once in a while, like last week for example, we take a small 25 seater. They freak me out a little haha. The meeting was allll about finding skills and applying what we learned from Elder Kopiscke last week. 
 
Before Elder Kopiscke came, the standard contact approach was just to stop people, then introduce yourself and say your a missionary from the church of Jesus Christ, and then say something like "We're out to share a message with people about the Book of Mormon".. And although that is kind of what we have learned to do ever since I got here, he straight up told us to never say that again...haha. Pretty much 'cause everyone already knows who we are, and we're just wasting time with those words! So now we try and start with testimony or an inspired question, which takes a lot more thought and boldness, but helps us to really find the people who are prepared. That's one of my favorite things that he told us. He said stop trying to prepare these people! He opened up the scriptures and read in Alma where it says that ANGELS are preparing the people. He told us that we need to stop wasting so much time trying to prepare people who aren't prepared, but instead, use your time to "find those that will receive you" as it states in Preach My Gospel. Now that takes faith!! The people are either prepared or they are not! If they aren't, then give them some time and try back later, but don't let the elect walk right by you while you are spending your time trying to convince someone who isn't prepared! 

At least it was something like that;) It's a little different and is taking some time for even the most experienced missionaries to get used to, but is eventually going to make the difference for this mission in Norway. 

And to answer your question mom, I don't really hear too much about America or Obama... We did hear Mitt Romney's speech at BYU a few weeks back though, and that was good! 

Here's a fun tidbit for you.. The YSA's here had an activity on Saturday, and since we had an investigator there, we were also invited. It was way legit. I now have a new found love for.... CURLING!!! It was sweet! And now that I know the rules and have tried it myself, I just have a burning desire to go watch it on TV and see some professionals play.
No joke. Mad respect points to all of the professional curlers out there. If there is even one curling place in Utah, I will find it, and I will go curling. haha Hopefully I'll get some pictures of that in the coming weeks.

The church is true. Kos dåkker!

Eldste Nilsson

Wednesday, January 21, 2015

January 19

Before I say anything else, I just want to say that THE CHURCH IS TRUE! The Holy Ghost is real, Jesus Christ lives, and God is our Father and He loves us.

One thing I have learned to absolutely love since I have been out here is listening to General Authorities speak and instruct. Whether it's an apostle or a member of the 70, it's so powerful, and I feel the spirit so strong each time. 

Elder Kopischke from the 70 came to our mission this week, and it will be something I'll never forget. We learned so much about teaching, finding, and how the spirit works. He did a lot of different conferences. He worked with ward councils around the country, he did two different zone conferences with missionaries, a meeting for all of the members, and a few more. 

We flew down to Bergen on Wednesday for the conference on Thursday. It went really well, and I was able to conduct without making any huge mistakes haha. For about 3 hours, all he did was take questions we had and answer them by using scriptures, personal experiences, and most importantly, the spirit. He challenged everyone to write down a few questions they had about anything, and by the end, everyone had received an answer to their questions. It was only because he created an environment of spiritual revelation by testifying, using the words of Christ, and applying principles according to our needs. It was a joy to watch and be a part of. He followed this same pattern for every single meeting he did! So that conference was special.

My favorite part of the week though, was when Elder Duncan and I were able to fly down to Oslo for Mission Leadership Council. We gathered at the mission home with the other zone leaders of the mission and sister training leaders, and we got to have an up close and personal meeting with Elder Kopischke. It was.. Incredible. There is no way I can explain everything that I felt and learned, but he taught us a lot about finding, and about how we can "find those who will receive us". It pretty much changes how we do things in the whole mission! 
 So in a way, we kind of feel like Greenies again in the sense that we have changed our method of contacting and teaching by pretty much taking out all of the fluff, and in order to help us really "find those who will receive us" and make sure we are not spending to much time on those who won't. And to make it more aligned with the principles in Preach my Gospel. I'm pumped!

I have a strong testimony that this church is being led by inspired men who are very close to the Lord. If you aren't quite as sure about that, then I encourage you to go and listen to them! Apply what they teach! Because they teach the words of Christ and you will have your own experiences if you put it to the test.

I love you all! Have a good week and help someone in need!

Elder Nilsson

Monday, January 5, 2015

January 5, 2015

Happy 2015! Can't believe my full year of missionary service has come to an end. 2014 will go down in the books as one of the most important years of my life. It's crazy to think about the kind of improvements and changes I have made since last January in 2014. I'm praying and hoping I can say that exact same thing come January 2016! Still a lot to learn and a lot to work on.

We had a pretty fun week. We did stay up past 12 and celebrated the new year while watching fireworks and banging on pots and pans with the senior couple. Elder Duncan and I ended up taking the bus home though, and boy was that an experience.. A pretty spiritual one in fact! As you can imagine, the bus was just full of drunk young people, as is typical here. We just sat at the front of the bus with our eyes straight forward because nothing that was going on on that bus was going to help us have very heavenly and uplifting thoughts haha. It did strengthen my testimony of the blessing of the gospel though. 

As we sat on the loud bus at 1 in the morning on our way home, I turned to Elder Duncan and said "We are in the heart of Babylon!" and then Duncan starts singing, "O Babylon, O Babylon, we bid the farewell!" and from that point forward we just sang hymns for about 20 minutes until we got home. I know it sounds super cheesy but it was like we had a little bubble of the spirit around us. The experience really made me think about how grateful I am that I have a knowledge of the Gospel and that my life doesn't consist of all of the filth and garbage that the world has to offer. There is no real happiness in it. I also got a stronger testimony of how much hymns can bring the spirit! 

I don't know if I have mentioned to any of you before about having to learn Norwegian sign language or not.. I learned a tiny bit while I was in Sandefjord about 7 or 8 months ago, but not a lot.. But, there is a new convert here named Casper who is deaf. He is about 21 and is so solid! But, the missionaries who taught him and would translate for him in church are moving this week, so President Evans called me and told me I needed to pick it up fast, so I've been going hardcore on learning sign language this week! Pray for me, cause I'll be translating for Casper on Sunday. haha I actually think sign language is super fun. 

Other than that I found out I will be in Stavanger for at least another 6 weeks with Elder Duncan, so we're pumped about that! We had 75 baptisms as a mission in the year of 2014, which is about 10 more than the year before, and this year our goal is 100. Sure enough, the work is hastening. The Lord won't slow down, so we all need to keep up! If you have a desire to be a better member missionary but just don't know how, first read the scriptures and preach my gospel, but if you want additional help, read The Power of Every Day Missionaries by Clayton Christensen! It's an amazing book! 

Hope everyone has a good 2015 and has some good goals to get them going. Love you all! The church is true.

Elder Nilsson

December 29

What a special week it was! Obviously with Christmas and everything, this week was a little bit different than normal. I know in some areas in the world missionaries were probably proselyting Christmas eve and Christmas day, but here that would just be a little offensive to Norwegians, so we weren't allowed to tract or contact, so it felt like we had like 3 p days in a row, which was weird.. But I'm kind of excited to be getting back into the swing of things again. 

Christmas is celebrated on the 24th here, and they usually celebrate by having a very nice and cozy dinner with their family in the evening, typically a traditional Norwegian dish called pinekjøtt, which is really salty lamb, or Ribbe, which is Pork belly. Delicious stuff! Unfortunately, I didn't get any reindeer meat this year, but it was still delicious:) We were with a Norwegian family on the 24th and ate dinner with them, opened presents with them (they gave us some nice wool socks:)) and then watched a little Christmas movie. It was great!

On the 25th, we spent most of the day at the Glenns house. They are an American family with 4 little boys, so it was crazy and fun to play around with them and all of their toys! Maybe my favorite gift though was being able to see and talk with my amazing family:) I'm so happy everyone was able to be there! With that said, I'd like to wish a big warm welcome to the newest members of the Nilsson family, Jessica and Sophie!!! I'm glad Austin and Jessica's wedding stuff all went well, and I'm way pumped about my new niece Sophie! Congratulations you guys! The fam just keeps on growing:) I think it's almost double since I've been gone?

I think that is one of my favorite parts of being a missionary. Being able to testify about how much the Gospel has blessed my family. Everybody has different family situations and relationships, but the Gospel is given to us by God for the benefit of each and every family. No exceptions! So I love testifying and promising people with full confidence that what we have to share with them will bless their families, because I know without a doubt in my mind that it will. More than anything! 

I'm so grateful for Jesus Christ. I know that He is our Savior and that He lives now and that He knows and loves us. There is nothing more important than the relationship we have with Him. I hope that as we come into this New Year we will all be able to set and be committed to some goals about how we are going to come closer to the Savior this year. If you can't think of anything specific, might I suggest that you could make some goals for your missionary work this year? :) It doesn't have to be complicated, but I know that if we set goals and follow through with sharing the gospel, that we will come closer to our Heavenly Father and our Savior. I love this gospel, I don't know what I would do without it. 

I love you all! I hope 2014 was great and that 2015 will be even better! Happy New Year!

Elder Nilsson
 Christmas Eve


We made home made Crunch wrap supremes from Taco bell. They. were. Glorious.
Christ Statue. Only three of them in the world! One is Salt Lake, one in Denmark, and one is Stavanger, Norway:)

Me and Elder Duncan at an incredible Christmas breakfast with a family from Texas. We had PIONEER PANCAKES AND MAPLE SYRUP!!!!